This mantra is a phrase from Gretchen Rubin’s new book, Happier at Home. I found the book decent enough (the part that stuck with me the most was the advice to clean our houses with the goal of clear horizontal surfaces in mind–that really is what we think of as clean, isn’t it?), but the best part of it wasn’t part of it at all.
It was Laura Vanderkam’s review of it on her blog last August. Her post, “Don’t keep it simple,” includes such wisdom as this:
But here’s a different question: what are you saving your energy for? There’s another image in Happier at Home of someone saving her expensive truffle oil for a special occasion, only to see it go bad in the bottle. Children won’t get to repeat a childhood. Someday, sooner than we’d all like, the friends who could come over for dinner will not be available to do so. The years pass by and the somedays become no longer. So spend out now.
Yes. Every Autumn I fall into a work coma, where the new school year dominates my time and energy, and everything else suffers. It’s productive, but miserable.
This year, I’ve been trying to “choose the bigger life.” I’ve only had middling success. Still, I have dedicated a little more time to worthwhile things, and making work time more focused, and I’ll keep working on it. The results are worth it.